Where does the time go?

Pre-Lucas, the first thing I would do each day when I came home from work was to go through my mail -- file my statements, organize bills, throw away junk mail. Post-Lucas, I barely have time to acknowledge my mail. I must have 3 weeks of mail piled on my dining room table. The problem I create for myself is that the pile becomes so tall, it is overwhelming and I can't bring myself to tackle it, especially with my other priorities like Lucas, posting, eating and sleeping!